Uncover Your Personal Myth
Most wellness and transformation professionals move through life as if it’s a random collection of events — disconnected, unplanned, coincidental.
As if they just decided to become a coach, a therapist, a healer, or a guide. As if they weren’t drawn here by something deeper — an accumulation of wounds, desires, choices, and conditioning.
But your work was never random. It was inevitable.
Your personal myth has been shaping you all along, like a river carving stone — every rupture, obsession, and unseen force leaving its mark. Every choice you’ve made, every path you’ve followed, is part of a deeper narrative you’ve been living into since the beginning.
And when people come to me looking for clarity, this is where we start:
Your life doesn’t just happen to you. It unfolds along a path structured by everything you’ve experienced. You are the exact, logical outcome of what came before — a living, breathing myth in motion.
The sooner you understand your personal myth, the sooner you stop wasting energy on paths that were never yours.
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Causality: You Were Always Going to Be This
Here’s where people sometimes resist me: they don’t like the idea that life has a shape. That their choices weren’t made in a vacuum but were set up by everything that came before.
But causality isn’t fate. It’s pattern.
You don’t just wake up one day and decide to become a ballet teacher if you’ve never been near ballet. Something had to plant the seed — a condition, a pull, a thread that existed before the choice was ever available.
The same is true of your work.
You didn’t become a therapist, coach, or healer on a whim. You became one because you were already inhabiting the story long before you had language for it:
You were the one people confided in at 12.
You picked up on subtleties no one else noticed.
You carried sensitivities shaped by your environment.
Your own pain and healing set the conditions for what was to come.
When you step back, you start to see it: nothing about your path has been random. Your personal myth has always been unfolding.
Seeing Your Life as Personal Myth
When you zoom out far enough, your life takes on structure. It stops feeling chaotic and starts revealing its arc.
Personal myths are just causal patterns turned into story. They’re the deep, invisible narratives guiding your choices, relationships, and work — whether you’re conscious of them or not.
And they all follow a familiar logic:
1. Core Wound → The Trigger:
Every myth begins with rupture. Something that breaks you open and sets your whole story in motion.
Maybe you were unseen. Neglected. Told you were too much, or not enough. Maybe you became responsible for everyone else’s emotions, shaping yourself to survive.
Your main transformation often starts as a reaction to this wound.
2. The Early Years → Your Uncorrupted Self
Before the world taught you how to perform, you were just… you. Curious, weird, alive in your own fascinations.
Ask yourself:
What were you obsessed with before anyone told you who to be?
What did you do just because it delighted you?
Which pieces of that early self still need expression today?
3. Seeking → Searching for the Missing Piece
At some point, you start searching. You don’t know exactly what for, only that something feels missing.
You chase relationships that mirror childhood patterns.
You leap between careers, trying to find what fits.
You move through heartbreak, loss, and reinvention.
This is where the story intensifies — where longing drives you forward.
4. The Transformation → Breaking the Pattern
Eventually, something clicks. You hit the wall you can’t move past.
You see the pattern — and you shatter it.
This moment feels like magic, but it’s not. It’s the inevitable turning point your personal myth was always leading you toward.
5. The Work → Turning Your Myth into Service
And now, here you are.
Doing work that — if you’re honest — is just an extension of your own transformation. You’re serving past versions of yourself. You’re creating what you once needed.
The more you understand your personal myth, the easier everything becomes:
You stop forcing yourself into offers that don’t fit.
You stop attracting clients who don’t resonate.
You stop trying to be everything to everyone — because you know exactly who your work is for.
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How to Map Your Personal Myth
If you can see the pattern, you can work with it instead of against it. Start here:
Core Wound: What’s the earliest rupture? What survival strategy did you develop?
Early Interests: What fascinated you before the world told you who to be?
Seeking Years: Where did you struggle, chase, or lose yourself?
Transformation: What broke the old pattern and set you free?
The Work: How does your transformation now shape your business and clients?
Sit with these. Follow the threads. Watch your personal myth reveal itself.
Your Life Has a Shape—Work With It
You can either live your story unconsciously or consciously.
Most people repeat the same loops — relationships, careers, wounds — without ever realizing they’re following an invisible script.
But when you uncover your personal myth, you begin to partner with it. You stop resisting what’s inevitable and start aligning with what’s yours.
Follow the causal thread far enough back and you’ll see it:
You were always going to be this.
Your transformation was inevitable.
Your work is inevitable.
The moment you see your personal myth, you stop trying to be someone else and start becoming exactly who you were meant to be.
Ready to Step Into Your Myth?
Join our free 5-day training for wellness and transformation professionals to:
Unearth the deeper narrative shaping your work
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Grow visibility without forcing it
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Your personal myth is the deeper narrative pattern shaping your identity, work, and transformation. It connects your experiences into a coherent story you can consciously live into.
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When you understand your personal myth, your messaging, offers, and voice align naturally. You attract the right clients because you’re clear about who you serve and why.
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Awareness changes everything. Your personal myth provides the structure, but understanding it lets you live it consciously instead of being driven by unconscious patterns.